Check It Twice: How to Write your Christmas Wish List
While Mariah Carey belts out a much-loved tune about it, some of us may be dreading the inevitable text from loved ones asking about what we want for Christmas. Our focus, either rightly or wrongly, has been on giving and very little thought has gone on what we want to find under the tree. Meaning that come Christmas morning, the predictable pair of socks will be unwrapped and though we appreciate our feet looking jazzy and warm, it may not be something which we dream about.
Well this year, have no fear, here are some things to consider when thinking about how to write your Christmas list and ensure the person gifting is just as happy as you are about your present.
1. Think of wants…
It might be something that caught your eye while shopping—a pair of gloves with irresistibly soft lining, a fragrance that’s lingered in your thoughts, or a new craft set you’re eager to explore.
These aren’t just items; they’re little luxuries that elevate your style, enrich your home, and brighten your life.
Let your wishlist reflect not just needs, but desires—those special touches that make you pause, smile, and feel a sense of delight.
And when Christmas morning comes, imagine the joy of unwrapping something chosen not out of necessity, but out of love for the life you’re creating.
2. And needs…
When we were children, Father Christmas seemed to effortlessly fulfil even our most imaginative gift wishes. But as adults, practicality often takes the lead.
There are things we think about often—like that travel mug that leaks every morning or the purse with a zip that never quite closes—but somehow, they never make it into our shopping baskets.
Christmas is the perfect moment to refresh those everyday essentials. It’s a chance to replace the worn-out with something that not only works better but also brings a little joy each time it’s used. These thoughtful upgrades can make life easier and more delightful all year round.
3. Consider a range of budgets
When creating your wish list, a helpful approach is to choose around ten items across a range of price points.
It might feel a little too practical when you're dreaming big, but we all know that the most meaningful gifts often come in the smallest packages.
This is a great opportunity to do a bit of research and pick items that will stand the test of time. Think beyond the essentials—consider gifts that are whimsical or indulgent. Maybe it’s that Jellycat that never fails to make you smile, or a box of Charbonnel et Walker chocolates for a luxurious evening treat.
Let your list reflect not just what you need, but what brings you joy.
4. Don’t forget about experiences
Sometimes, it’s not about the gift itself—it’s about the person behind it.
No matter what they give us, nothing quite compares to the joy of spending time together. As life gets busier, those moments of connection can feel increasingly rare. So instead of a perfectly wrapped present, why not make a plan? Invite someone special to join you for an afternoon of good conversation over a cheeseboard and a glass of wine.
Jarrolds offers a selection of charming restaurants where you can unwind and create lasting memories—because laughter and shared experiences are often the most meaningful gifts of all.
Or perhaps what you really need is a little time for yourself. Add a Retreat voucher to your wish list and treat yourself to a soothing massage or a nail treatment. It’s the perfect way to start the new year feeling refreshed and restored.
5. Provide ideas rather than items
We don’t always feel comfortable listing out every single thing we’d love from Father Christmas, and sharing direct links can take away some of the magic of gift-giving. Instead, why not offer a few hints to help guide their choices? Sharing details like your preferred sizes and favourite colours can take the guesswork (and the need for a receipt) out of gifting—turning a too-small lime green jumper into a perfectly fitting deep cherry red one.
And it doesn’t have to be all practical info either. Mentioning your hobbies or interests can spark inspiration. Maybe you’ve just discovered a new skincare routine—they might surprise you with a brand you’ve never heard of. Or if you’re thinking about trying something new but feel unsure, the right gift could be just the encouragement you need to dive in.